葬礼得震撼教育

这个学期开始的第一周时　　出席了一场青少年的葬礼
这个学期的最后一个星期　又出席了一藏青少年的葬礼

曾看见一位学长在自己的部落格里提到葬礼
他认为葬礼是亲属们正式向死者告别的一个仪式

之前的那一场葬礼　是平静的～
亲属们都很积极的处理这场葬礼
或许是亲属有很强的信仰
相信身为亲属的他们　可以为死者做些什么
在死者往生以后　还可以为他减轻之后要承受的痛苦


今天　出席了一场葬礼
看见在棺木推进焚化炉的时候
听见亲属们不停地喊着“ＸＸ起来，ＸＸ起来”
亲属们其实还抱着一线希望　
希望奇迹会发生　死者可以复活
直到焚化炉的门被关上　按下燃烧的开关键
亲属们歇斯底里的痛哭
彻底的崩溃了　因为这一刻　亲属们的确确实实的接受死亡这回事了

这一刻　才真的明白学长的意思
一场葬礼　（或许）不是为了死者而举办的
而是为了死者身边的亲属好友　接受死亡的事实而办的

死亡
对它有了不一样的看法
［害怕死亡的对象不是自身，而是身边的人们］
自身经历的死亡，只有一次
可身边的人死亡，却是要面对不止一次的
要在面对死亡后重新振作的自己　在经历又一次的死亡再站起来的意志力
是多么的沉重呢

现在
对于死亡与葬礼
我成长了（寻找到了另一个角度）
要祝福的不止是死者　最［迫切］需要祝福的是亲属们

ｐ／ｓ：自己的思绪变得有点乱，自个儿正寻找平衡心理的方式
但还是心怀感激的，今天的我有领悟了不一样的事情

hectic week

Ya, having a hectic week past weekend

not only for assignment and presentation

Had also hold two big show in the weekend

For sure it is so tired

anyway, it does had a lot of fun as well =)

ya.. we had invited Michael Wong to do the sharing in our campus 

(DARE TO DREAM bring by Guidance and Counseling unit)

the committees.. =)

the special guest of the day

on the left pic: Michael Wong

on the right pic: (from left) Mr.Pheah Kai Suen(counselor),

Lee Sheng Wang, Kow Kwan Yee ( the guests), Lai Mei Jay (the MC)

We get the chance to snap photo with him after the event as well =)

On friday, 19 Nov 2010

being the mc with jian wei (first time being partner with him)

first time to hold a show with 300 ppl as well

snapping pic with performer and participant as well =)

snapping pictures with sister and friends at the backstage

         

First time to style up like that

Most of the friends can't recognize me for the moment..

平等地位

追求平等的时代    不管什么事情   我们都要求公平、平等

男生和女生  应该受到平等的待遇
兄弟和姐妹  应该得到同等的关爱
父母与孩子 应该做到互相的尊重
老师与学生 应该做到平等的讨论

而这一些我们所谓的平等，就是平等的、公平的吗？

中华传统注重忠孝礼仪
 身为一个孩子应该孝顺父母天经地义
身为一个学生懂得尊师重道是一种礼貌

一个人完成一个人的责任与义务，就是平等、公平。。（至少我是这么认为的）

地位的悬殊不是一种虐待、更不是一种羞耻
每一个地位都有他要背负的责任与义务
   当你要求接受哪一个地位的待遇时    是否也有勇气拿起那背后的石头呢？


小插曲:
  今天在巴士上让了座位给一位（上了年纪的）老师，似乎周围都在用异样眼光看着我。
 [虽然自觉今天做了一件光荣的事情，可想了一会后，一点都不光荣，还带点羞愧呢]
 有那么奇怪吗？
或许十几年前的你若没这样做，可被教训了一顿呢！

campaign

Ya, I just end my campaign YESTERDAY ( since now is ady 1.00am)

Time pass.. I started to treat something just as drinking water.. ( I think)

usually,
I will be nervous for the presentation
I'd had butterflies on the progress on the presentation
I'd be panic when being evaluate...

But, these few times..
I just take it as a normal presentation and just do what I should supposed to do..
Is it I underestimate the evaluation of lecturer and tutor..?
I doubt what make me change..

Anyway..
I do enjoy the whole campaign..
Although I should said it is not success as I want to..
But ..
I try to participant in every section we have
And only then I get FUN and ENJOY..

I think sometimes
 view a success and failure as a third person will make us loss the passion in participate the event
perhaps..
At the moment
Just enjoy what It Is..

Skill need to be sharpen, Content is what we should learn..
At least I learn something from the topic =)

There is something that we should learn in every lesson..
I learn to be ENJOY in every moment today ^^
and IT FEEL GREAT .. NO DOUBT guys =)

Plan

We use to plan when we wanna do something

But how far can we plan?
A week?A month?A year? A decade?

We always try to plan as well as we can
But we dun actually can plan as well as we want

sometimes, an incident that happen will just screw all the plan up..
So, how well we can plan??

Sometimes, I do believe that the BEST PLAN is to be UNPLANNED
Stay clear with the OBJECTIVE and the GOAL of life..
I'm sure they will bring us to the destiny we want..

Not much plan needed..
HEART & PASSION needed the most ^^

p/s: there are people who dun plan at all as well..

sharing

having a great day hanging out outside
meeting a lot of people and friends
It is a great moment
as everyone I met inspire me something towards life,culture and dream

You will never know when you are inspiring someone by just a simple sharing
It DOES
Someone may felt guilty and humble
as Ones don't believe that their story will inspire others
Everyone does

Story is the most influential tools to affect people (at least it works on me (= )

I get touch and I get motivated ^^
Thanks you for the story and experience sharing
Someday somehow .. Who knows that is my turn to inspire YOU =p

感恩[烂好人]

最近常被疲惫轰炸
都快不像人形了

还有 那快被逼到墙角的任务
都让自己快喘不过来了

好在，天无绝人之路
遇到了[烂好人]---一个不那么熟的好人
助了我一臂之力
相信之后的问题应该不难了

感激自己的身边出现了许多善缘
让这一路虽然疲惫   但还算四平八稳的走过来了
再过一些时间吧。。是时候让自己休息一下了 =)

那一种被拖着走的感觉

记得很久以前看过一段成龙的专访

那时   他很无奈的说他有累的时候

但时间却没办法让它停下来

他必须不断地向前走

那时有一种摸不着头脑的矛盾

怎么自己想走、想停、想放缓的权利和力量都没有呢？

原来  责任是这么样的一回事

既然你扛起了  就地把它完成

无论你有多么的疲惫

担下的就应该要完成

身体累了、心里累了

为了责任而工作

为了工作而工作

就像一朵缺水的花儿、一只缺氧的鱼儿

很悲哀、亦无奈

这种感觉就像是我们常说的

“像一只牛被别人拖着走”

自己无法掌握自己的步伐

只有被时间主宰我的去向